MIND SPACE

  I used to be someone who hid my struggles. I would be going through something incredibly difficult, feeling like I was "dying in my own movie," trapped within my silent narrative. I never shared because I cared deeply about what people thought of me, and honestly, I didn't want my private business out on "the streets." I’ve since learned the importance of sharing my lows with a trusted individual, of not carrying my burdens entirely alone. The relief that comes from not going through life in complete isolation is profound. Many of us are currently navigating very difficult times and suffering in isolation for a variety of reasons. Perhaps we don’t want to "disturb" others with our problems, fear sounding like we are complaining, or feel intense pressure to maintain a "strong face" and avoid showing vulnerability. Society has made it easier to share successes and, in turn, has made it difficult to open up about struggles. What many fail ...

  A few days ago, we stepped into a time machine. The destination year was 1960, the pre-digital era. 6:00 PM was the arrival time, and we didn't know how long this offline journey would last. Who knew that without TikTok, a minute in Uganda actually lasts sixty seconds? It was a terrifying discovery. For those of us who rely on the internet daily (and not just for dance videos), we had to instantly face the reality of zero accessibility. There was a sudden, scramble as people began suggesting all sorts of obscure "offline" communication apps. But let’s be honest: who were you even going to chat with? Unless your neighbor was a tech-wizard and standing right outside your gate, it just didn't work out. An internet shutdown feels like a natural disaster for productivity, a sudden stop for the many who run businesses online. In our corner of the world, during an election period, this particular kind of digital silence is just the event, we’ve come to expect. Thankful...

  We’ve all felt it lately, that restless, distracted feeling where your mind keeps drifting back to the news. Let’s call it "Election Brain." It’s a normal reaction to a big week, but we don't have to let it take over. With Uganda's general elections just days away, the national conversation is centered on the big event. This shared focus is noticeable, and managing the weight of it all can be exhausting. I want to be clear: I’m not a political person. This isn’t about who you should vote for or which party is better. This post is purely about our collective mental well-being during what is always a high-stakes moment for our nation. We all know the drill. Elections sometimes feel less like a democratic process and more like waiting for a weather forecast you watch with clenched teeth, hoping for sunshine but preparing for a storm. The current atmosphere is intense, made worse by "what if" concerns like potential internet shutdowns. Even the news netw...

  December rolls in with a bang, doesn't it? Feasts, weddings, fun, and our wallets feeling pretty heavy. The festive season is when the “basama” (our folks who work abroad) return, turning into temporary Mr. and Mrs. Big Money. We were all feeling like Elon Musk, telling the supermarket attendant to "keep the change!" And might I add, this change we were so quick to leave behind was sometimes just a humble 100 Ugandan shillings coin. Then, January lands like a ton of bricks. The party is officially over. Suddenly, that meaty wallet is dry. Remember how in December you were eating for taste? Now you eat to survive. Hello, 2 nd grade beans, our new best friend! The idea of eating out is a funny memory. Every last coin becomes a precious treasure. You're suddenly a "health guru," walking to work, telling everyone it's for fitness, when really, your car's on an unplanned holiday because fuel is a luxury you can't touch. This is the classic ...